“FRIENDLY FIRE”

 

 

A sermon preached
at the Mint Methodist Church, Exeter,
by the Minister, Rev Andrew Sails
at 6.30 p.m. on Sunday 30th March
(Fourth Sunday of Lent)

 

Readings:  Colossians 3:12-17 and John 13:21-35

 

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WAR IN IRAQ

 

On Friday there was it seems yet another instance of so called “friendly fire” in Iraq –

just one of the many reminders this week of how difficult it is

to control the violence of war once you let a destructive genie out of a bottle.

 

When you think about it, “friendly fire” is a bizarre phrase if ever there was one –

is quite a recent invention.   

Previously the phenomenon was referred to as “fratricide” – killing of your brother.

 

Which of course raises the question “Who is my brother and my sister?”   

 

 

There was a film about Operation Desert Storm released in 1996.called Courage Under Fire.  
It starred Meg Ryan and Denzel Washington.
Part of the plot was about friendly fire –

Denzel Washington is consumed with remorse for killing some of his men with friendly fire.  

There is powerful stuff there.  

But for me the interesting thing is something the film just takes for granted.  

What about the Iraqis who are killed?  
Yes of course there is huge soul searching and agony about killing my brothers in arms.  

But as to all the other people the hero kills – that is the Iraqis –

they are simply faceless nobodies –

and the guy who is so understandably devastated about the friendly fire incident

has no concern whatsoever for the Iraqis he is killing –

he calls them “fuckers” and the only emotion he has about them is jingoistic pride in blowing them away.   

The more the merrier.

 

 

Who is my neighbour?  

When Jesus was asked this he told a story about Jews and Samaritans –

the point being we can all be neighbours whichever side of the tracks we come from.

 

Who is my brother and my sister?   

I wonder of Jesus could have told a story about an American and an Iraqi –

ending up “we’re all brothers now”?

 

 

In Voltaire’s Candide, Candide comes across a prostrate African slave,

who explains the terrible conditions under which he is forced to live by his European masters.  

He is stuck on the floor because he has had an arm curt off because it got caught in machinery

and a leg cut off because he tried to run away.  

This he says is the custom of the country - 

But then he comments rather plaintively,

“The Dutch missionaries who converted me tell me every Sunday

that the blacks and whites are all children of one father,

whom they call Adam.

As for me, I am not a genealogist;

but if what these preachers say is true,

we are all second cousins;

and you must allow that it is a shocking thing to use one’s relations
in this barbarous manner.”

 

 

So who are our brothers and sisters?

 

 

In the immediate aftermath of Sept 11, I called in at one of the local Mosques

opposite the Church I was at in Walsall.   

I asked the Imam if there were ways we could work together –

his immediate response was “But yes of course, for are we not all the children of Adam and Eve?”

 

 

And yet sadly so often we are reminded that Adam’s children were called Cain and Abel –

and we have from that day on practiced fratricide – friendly fire.

 

 

20 years after Voltaire wrote “Candide”, John Wesley wrote

a “Seasonable Address to the Inhabitants of Great Britain

The date was 1776 and the subject matter the American war of Independence:

"See! Here are some thousands of our brave countrymen gathered together on this plain; ….

Then turn your eyes and behold a superior number at a little distance, of their brethren,

'flesh of their flesh, and bone of their bone,'

who only a few years since emigrated to the dreary wilds of America. ….
See, they advance towards each other,

well prepared with every instrument of death!

But what are they going to do?

To shoot each other through the head or heart; to stab and butcher each other. …...

So these countrymen, children of the same parents,

are to murder each other with all possible haste, to prove who is in the right.

Now, what an argument is this! What a method of proof!

What an amazing way of deciding controversies!”

 

 

And what was true in 1756 and 1776 is still true in 2003 –
We are all brothers and sisters, all part of the human family,

so in a real sense all killing is fratricide, all fire friendly fire.

 

None of which is to say that all wars are unjustified –

as a Methodist Church we are a broad coalition.  
I am aware that many of us in this Church are opposed to the war

but equally there are some who however reluctantly support Tony Blair’s policy.  

 

But whatever our view on the rights and wrongs of war in general, or this war in particular,

we can agree thus far –
that the death of any individual – soldier or civilian, Iraqi, Kurd, British or American,

is the death of a child of God, of our brother or sister.

According to the particular situation and our view of it,
each death may be necessary or avoidable,
it may be accidental or deliberate.  

What it can never be is a matter of glory.  

What it must always be is a matter of deep sorrow and penitence

on behalf of a human race which has come to this.  

 

 

Our NT reading today speaks of Judas the betrayer –

the one who was instrumental in the death of Jesus.

 

There have been many attempts to explain
why Judas did what he did:

 

Was he plain greedy – after the 30 pieces of silver?

 

Or was he perhaps trying to force Jesus’s hand

by putting him into a situation where he would have to use God’s power

to defeat the powers of Rome and the Temple?

 

Was it a deliberate plan to kill Jesus as an enemy?
or was it all a ghastly mistake – a plan that went wrong?

 

Friendly fire or enemy fire?   We don’t know -
only that the result is the same –
the death of God’s Son.

 

 

And when we kill in war

(even if for some killing may be justified as the least of several awful evils)
when we kill in war we stand with Judas and crucify Christ afresh -
for “Insomuch as you do it to the least of these your brethren you do it unto me”

and American British Kurdish or Iraqi, we are all brothers now…..

 

The question for us is of course

“Can we justify killing in war as the least of several evils?  

Read John Lawson’s article in this month’s “Forward” and ponder the question.    

But whatever you decide,

never forget that every faceless Iraqi statistic casually or even smugly catalogued by our military

was someone’s son or daughter and was your brother or sister.

 

 

MOTHERING SUNDAY

 

I have talked about war, because it is so much at the top of our thinking this week.

But today is also Mothering Sunday,

and we think not only about the family of the human race but also our own very local families.

We thank God for our mothers and children if we have them, for our immediate kith and kin.   

 

Of course the home can be a place of friendly or enemy fire – deliberate or accidental.

 

The parent or child who hurts those they love by thoughtless unawareness or by calculating design.

 

And Judas gave Jesus a kiss – a sign of love and care –
and the kiss was perverted into a means of destruction.

 

Let us seek in all we do to avoid enemy and friendly fire amongst those nearest to us –

may our kisses be signs of love not betrayal.

 

 

THE CHURCH

 

And What is true in the international affairs and in the home is equally true in the Church.

 

Heaven forbid that we should preach and pontificate about brotherly and sisterly love

whilst not displaying it in our own Church family.

 

We need to ask if there is anyone in the Church who is the victim of our enemy or friendly fire.  

If so, we need to beg forgiveness, disarm ourselves, bind up the wounds.   

 

 

For as Christ said to his followers –
and let this be a final word to us

as members of the family of nations, our domestic family and our Church family –

there is one here who would betray me - but
“A new commandment I give to you – to love one another…” 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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